At church we have a program for young women (12-18 years) to develop character. They have various activities they can perform. One of the experiences they get to have is a chance to "strengthen your relationship with a family member by showing love through your actions". To help the girls I made up this Hugs & Kisses Kit. I did this around Father's Day so the girls could have a chance to focus on their relationship with their Dad if they wanted to. Since it's close to Father's Day I thought I'd share it with you. This activity lasts two weeks so I gave simple suggestions of what they can do to interact each day. Some of the activities are Day #7 Make a treat for this person, Day #11 Text a nice comment to this person, Day #2 Find out their favorites, Day #8 Talk about your favorite things to do in Summer. I designed these into 1/4 sheet handouts. They can put it on a ring to help them remember. I call it The Ring Thing™. I've made several for different topics to go on the Ring Thing which I'll share periodically. Here's a photo of my Ring Thing. Here's a PDF to download if you'd like to use it for some activity you have. It's a black and white PDF that you can print onto colored paper. Then you can cut it into 1/4 sheets.
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I haven't mentioned it but in August I started teaching 5 classes a week of kindergarten art. Since I haven't taught in the school systems as a teacher I need to get an alternative teaching certificate. Which means more college classes. One of my classes' assignments required a lesson plan with a book and my content area (art). Art & Books are a great combination. I really enjoyed doing this lesson plan and thought I'd share it here. It has Missouri's educational standards but it still might be useful for a class or home activity. Share any feedback you have so that I can improve on it.
My 14 year old son put on his first teen party a couple of weeks ago. Both he and I thought it was successful. But here are other comments, the ones that matter, for some Facebook social proof that it was indeed fun - • G.E. "Awesome party, we need to do it again sometime." • K. A. "Heck yes we do." • K.S. "I had fun at [his] party, he needs to do it again this month." • S.W. "...this was an amazing party, thanks for inviting me." • D.S. "Great party... you have to do it again sometime." • J.F. "Easily the best party ever, I thank you and your parents." For a teen, putting on a party puts him/her in a vulnerable position. They are setting themselves up for judgement from their peers. That can be stressful, especially if you don't know what to do. Since my son's party turned out to be fun (and my other's children's parties as well) I thought I'd share some of the behind-the-scene party plan so that you and your teen can have confidence in putting on a party of your own. HERE ARE 5 TEEN PARTY TIPS TO HELP1) INVITESInvite small groups of friends but those groups don't have to be friends. This way the kids feel... 1) comfortable because they know someone else that is going to the party and can arrive together, 2) it's not a clique because it's not all one group and 3) they will have a chance to meet other kids that they my know by sight but have never had a chance to talk to or interact together. 2) HOSTINGTeach your teen how to host their guests. It doesn't have to feel formal but there are some formalities that will help their friends feel comfortable. They need to learn tips to be able to... 1) smile, and not be stressed but relaxed and enjoy the party, no one likes an uptight host or parents, 2) know how to introduce each other, tell them thanks for coming and that you're glad they're there, 3) carry the conversation, in the beginning, when there are not too many people (see photo below) and so they don't leave their friends in awkward silence. 3) FOODIt's a no brainer to have lots of food but ask other's to bring something they like. That way they will... 1) have one thing they for sure like at the party 2) it will make them feel 'invested' in the party and that they 'have' to go when they might feel a little nervous about going, 3) it helps with the cost, especially if your house turns into the "party house". 4) ATMOSPHEREOnce you get the kids there, you ought to have a loose plan of what will fill the time. 1) Music. There's bound to be silence in the beginning as guests arrive. Have some music playing so there isn't that awkward what-do-I-do-now silence and they panic. Don't judge a party by the first half hour. 2) Do. Have something for them to do - make food, Wii Just Dance®, swim, water games, etc. 3) Record. Put out cameras and video recorders for them to use and catch some of the action. They can replay, relive and laugh about it. 5) CHAPERONSI'm not a big fan of unchaperoned teen parties. I, and other parents, feel a parent should be at the party the whole time. It helps... 1) your kid avoid being put in an uncomfortable position because of your presence, you can do a "pass-through" (walking through the room to do something) or "stand-a-few" (just coming in to stand and watch the game, movie, or whatever, for a few minutes, see the photo below) several times during the evening, 2) make other kids feel ok that if one of the other kids starts acting lame that the parent will come in and intervene somehow, 3) you get to know your kid's friends and they get to know you, and your kid might see that his/her friends think you're kinda cool for letting them have a party. The first party is the hardest. The unknown always seems to be. But, putting on a party comes off much easier than you think. So don't be afraid. Try these 5 Teen Party Tips and put one on.
What other tips have worked for you and your teen? I teach young women (ages 12-18) at church and we give moral messages in the activities we do each week. We've been talking about weddings and marriage this last little while and I came across henna hand tattoos that are traditionally used at weddings. They are beautiful but our church recommends against getting tattoos. So, since I live the artsy life, I decided to tattoo a few other things - a notebook and tote. I also related it to the idea that everyone is a unique and integral part of the group and life as a whole. The girls really enjoyed the idea and the drawing. Here is a download link of the values lesson that goes along with the drawing. Here's a link to another tote in lime green.
If I were to do it over again, I would do a much smaller project for the girls than a tote lid. This lid took me 3 hours the next day. We had less than an hour of class to do and they were trying to fill up too much space for that much time. A notebook (or notebook size) would have been an easier start. Sometimes you don't know something until you do it. |
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